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FIRST DRAFTS & DIAPERS: NAVIGATING MOTHERHOOD, ONE PAGE AT A TIME

Tag: Work life balance for moms

I Stopped Chasing Balance. Here’s What I Found Instead.

Posted on January 14, 2026January 14, 2026 By darpansaggal

It was 9 PM on a Tuesday. Ronak was finally asleep. The dishes were still in the sink. I had three unfinished blog drafts open on my laptop, a work project due by Friday, and a text from a friend I hadn’t responded to in four days. I sat there…

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Why Women Don’t Apply for Jobs: The Real Research

Posted on January 8, 2026January 8, 2026 By darpansaggal

Real talk, mamas: I’ve been there. Scrolling through LinkedIn at 9 PM after your kid falls asleep, finding a job posting that makes my heart race with possibility, and then immediately talking myself out of applying because I don’t check every single box. “They want 5 years of experience with…

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New Year Intentions for Moms: Why I’m Not Promising a “New Me”

Posted on January 1, 2026January 1, 2026 By darpansaggal

When it comes to new year intentions for moms, I’m doing something different in 2026. My social media feed is already full of transformation stories, new year goal posts, and promises of becoming a “better version” of ourselves. And honestly? I’m tired just reading them. Don’t get me wrong, I…

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The Gratitude Skills I’m Teaching My 3-Year-Old Are the Same Ones Fueling Career Conversations

Posted on November 27, 2025January 1, 2026 By darpansaggal

Last week, I watched my son, Ronak, looked up from his truck and offered a spontaneous, heartfelt “thank you, Mama, for taking care of me.” No prompting. No negotiation. Just genuine, unscripted appreciation. That same week, I wrapped up a conversation with a recruiter who was impressed by my ‘emotional…

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The Super-Mom Myth: Reclaiming Our Joy

Posted on October 22, 2025October 22, 2025 By darpansaggal

There’s a version of motherhood the world still celebrates — the one where she somehow does it all. She’s leading a work meeting with one hand while soothing her sick child with the other. Her home looks like a Pinterest board. Her child is thriving. Her calendar is color-coded. And…

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5 Unexpected Ways Motherhood Made Me Better at My Job

Posted on July 30, 2025November 27, 2025 By darpansaggal

I used to really worry that stepping away from work to become a mom would set me back. I thought I’d forget everything, that I’d just fall behind. What I didn’t see coming? That being a mom would make me sharper, more understanding, way more creative, and honestly… a better…

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Mom Guilt: That Nagging Feeling Whether You Work or Stay Home

Posted on April 28, 2025May 1, 2025 By darpansaggal

Being a mom is amazing, but it also comes with this feeling we all know: mom guilt. It shows up whether you’re at your job dealing with work stuff or at home picking up toys… again! For us moms today, deciding whether to work or stay home isn’t just about…

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